On cost, cremation vs burial is not close once you count everything. With the same viewing and ceremony, the National Funeral Directors Association’s 2023 national medians put a burial funeral at $8,300 and a cremation funeral at $6,280, a gap of $2,020. That comparison stops at the funeral home’s door. Burial then adds a vault, a plot, grave opening and closing, and a headstone, and each of those is usually billed separately.
Cremation vs burial: the funeral home portion
The NFDA, a trade association, prices both kinds of funeral from the same basket of services. That makes its 2023 figures useful for seeing exactly where the gap comes from. The lines below are the ones that differ. The basic services fee, transfer, embalming, other preparation, viewing, ceremony, service van and printed package are the same in both, and together they come to $5,425. (NFDA 2023 General Price List Study)
| Line item (2023 national median) | Burial | Cremation |
|---|---|---|
| Shared services (basic fee, transfer, embalming, preparation, viewing, ceremony, van, printed package) | $5,425 | $5,425 |
| Metal casket | $2,500 | n/a |
| Hearse | $375 | n/a |
| Cremation fee | n/a | $400 |
| Alternative cremation container | n/a | $160 |
| Urn | n/a | $295 |
| Median total | $8,300 | $6,280 |
| Burial vault | $1,695 | n/a |
| Total with vault | $9,995 | $6,280 |
These are national medians from 2023, the most recent the NFDA has published. They are not quotes. Neither total includes cemetery charges, a monument or marker, or cash advance items such as flowers and the obituary. (NFDA)
Most of the $2,020 gap is the casket. A family choosing cremation with a viewing can often narrow the rest. The FTC notes that many families rent a casket from the funeral home for the visitation rather than buy one.
The costs that arrive on a different bill
This is where burial pulls further ahead on cost. The FTC lists what a cemetery charges on top of the funeral home. (FTC, Buying a Cemetery Site)
- The plot or crypt. The FTC notes that plots can be expensive, especially in metropolitan areas.
- Opening and closing. Cemeteries charge to open a grave for interment and again to fill it in.
- An outer burial container. The FTC says most, but not all, cemeteries require a grave liner or vault.
- Endowment or perpetual care, if it is not already in the plot price.
- A headstone or marker, and often a fee to set it. What you may install depends on the cemetery’s rules.
The NFDA’s median does not include any of these. The FTC’s Funeral Rule, which guarantees you itemized prices, also does not cover cemeteries unless they sell both funeral goods and funeral services. (FTC) Ask the cemetery for its own written price list and read its rules on vaults and markers before you commit.
Cremation does not always avoid the cemetery. If the ashes go into a cemetery plot, a mausoleum or a columbarium niche, the FTC notes you can expect to buy the space and pay opening and closing fees and endowment care there too. Scattering or keeping the ashes at home avoids those charges.
What each option involves
| Burial | Cremation | |
|---|---|---|
| Container required | A casket or other container. You may buy it anywhere, and the funeral home cannot charge you for using one bought elsewhere. | No casket. No state or local law requires one for cremation, and an alternative container must be offered. |
| Embalming | Not required by law except in certain special cases. Often required by funeral home policy for a public viewing. | Same rule. Not needed for direct cremation. |
| Outer container (vault or liner) | Not required by state law, per the FTC. Many cemeteries require one. | Not needed for scattering or keeping ashes at home. If the urn goes into a cemetery, ask about its rules. |
| Timing | Set by the cemetery’s schedule | Set by state authorization rules, which vary by state |
| Lowest-cost version | Immediate (direct) burial | Direct cremation |
Sources for the table: the FTC’s summary of the Funeral Rule and the rule itself, 16 CFR Part 453.
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Pricing both options in one call
You do not have to decide first and shop second. Under the Funeral Rule, a funeral home must give you price information over the phone, and you do not have to give your name, address or phone number first. (FTC) Ask each home for three numbers: a funeral with viewing and burial, direct cremation, and immediate burial.
Whichever you choose, the rule also lets you bring your own casket or urn. The funeral home cannot refuse it or charge a handling fee. Our plain-English guide to the Funeral Rule lists the rest of your rights.
Comparing the lowest-cost versions
The cheapest form of each is direct cremation or immediate burial, with no viewing or ceremony with the body present. Any funeral home that offers them must list a price for each on its General Price List. That includes a separate price for when you supply your own container or casket. (16 CFR 453.2(b)(4)(iii))
The listed price does not tell the whole story. In the 2023 survey by the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Maryland and Environs, the quoted immediate burial price excluded the casket, the plot, opening and closing, and any liner, vault or marker. The quoted direct cremation price usually excluded the container and urn, and often the crematory fee. (FCAME 2023 Mortuary Price Survey) For immediate burial, all the cemetery costs above still apply. Our guides to direct cremation cost and direct burial vs traditional burial break these down.
How many families choose each
Cremation is now the majority choice in the U.S. The NFDA projected a 2025 cremation rate of 63.4 percent and a burial rate of 31.6 percent, and expects cremation to reach 82.3 percent by 2045. (NFDA statistics) Popularity is not a reason to choose either. Religious practice, a family plot or a wish to have a grave to visit are all good reasons to choose burial even at a higher cost.
If the person was a veteran
The cost comparison changes for veterans. Burial in a VA national cemetery includes the gravesite, opening and closing, perpetual care, and a government headstone, marker or medallion at no cost to the family. Cremated remains are buried or inurned with the same honors as a casket. Funeral home charges, for either choice, remain the family’s expense. (VA National Cemetery Administration) For a veteran, much of the extra cost of burial disappears. See help paying for a funeral for VA allowances and other benefits.
Questions that settle it for most families
- Is there already a family plot, or did the person leave written wishes?
- Does your faith tradition call for burial, or allow cremation?
- Do you want a viewing with the body present? If so, ask about renting a casket for a cremation.
- If burial: what does the cemetery charge for the plot, opening and closing, and endowment care, and what outer container and markers does it require?
- If cremation: where will the ashes go? Will that place charge for a niche, a plot or an interment?
- Was the person a veteran eligible for a national cemetery?
Other options exist too, including green burial and methods that are legal only in some states. Our guide to green and alternative options covers where they are legal. Whichever way you lean, get the funeral home’s General Price List and the cemetery’s written prices on the same day. Burial’s extra cost is spread across two businesses, and you only see the true gap when both are in front of you.
Sources
- National Funeral Directors Association (trade association): 2023 General Price List Study release with line-item tables (archived PDF)
- National Funeral Directors Association: 2023 NFDA General Price List Study Shows Inflation Increasing Faster than the Cost of a Funeral
- National Funeral Directors Association: Statistics
- Federal Trade Commission: Buying a Cemetery Site
- Federal Trade Commission: Funeral Costs and Pricing Checklist
- Federal Trade Commission: The FTC Funeral Rule
- Electronic Code of Federal Regulations: 16 CFR Part 453, Funeral Industry Practices
- Funeral Consumers Alliance of Maryland and Environs: 2023 FCAME Mortuary Price Survey
- U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, National Cemetery Administration: Burial and Memorial Benefits